(Mary Clare writing) Well, things have been pretty crazy for both of us between wedding planning and school, but I want to finish out our story.
A month after our first date, Dan came to my house for Sunday dinner. This is quite a daunting task, considering that I have five brothers and a sister. Everyone made sure to be there to meet this guy... Anyway, Dan and I were "official" by this time and that week-end I had attended a spiritual exercises retreat. I prayed about our relationship and I really felt that God had blessed me with the right person when I wasn't even looking or expecting it. I felt confirmed in the intuition that Dan was the person I was going to marry. The dinner went fine and Dan blended in really well with my brothers. From the very beginning, he just belonged.


Around the time of our anniversary, we started seriously thinking about wedding dates and getting engaged. I dropped not-so-subtle hints like opening up diamond web sites and educating him about the 4C's of diamonds (for those who haven't ventured into engagement-land yet, that's carat, color, cut and clarity). Fortunately for Dan, his Aunt Lily happens to work in the diamond district.
Anyway, in March I went away for the week-end to help out at a retreat and while I was away, Dan visited the family for St. Paddy's Day dinner. He served as the token (half) Irishman (Editor: I'm a "gimmick" for those in the know). From what I hear, he very red-facedly and nervously asked my Dad for permission to take me off his hands. As Dan says (and as almost anyone will agree), my Dad cuts an imposing figure. Rumor has it that the evening concluded with an uncomfortable man-hug, and that my Dad did the dance that Mini-Me does in the Geico commercial. Also, to my chagrin, Dan showed everyone the ring before I saw it (Editor: hee hee!).
I wasn't sure of the date that Dan would propose, but he did tell me that it would be on a feast day in March. I suspected St. Joseph, but the Annunciation was also a possibility. Well, on St. Joseph's Day, I agreed to meet him at the Church of Our Saviour (the site of our first date) for noon Mass. Dan was dressed sorta spiffy and seemed nervous, so I knew something was up. After Mass, we went over to pray in front of the St. Joseph statue located just to the right of the

So, that was our very happy St. Joseph's Day. A few weeks later I got a little upset with Dan (Editor: this has been known to happen from time to time ;-)) and I happened to be going into the city, so I stopped in Our Saviour to pray to our St. Joe. I realized that he had been engaged too and had hit quite a stumbling block during that time, so, IMHO he should be the

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